友人はどう選べばいいのか。福厳寺住職でYouTuberの大愚元勝さんは「お釈迦様は悪友を避けて善友を求めよと教えている。たとえば『六法礼拝経』には、付き合ってはいけない4種類の人と付き合うべき4種類の人について説いている」という――。* This article enjoys the loneliness of doing well with the great fool, "Satsumi".(Koyokan) is a re -edited part.
写真=iStock.com/cooperr007※写真はイメージです全ての画像を見る(4枚)The kanji "person" is a hieroglyphed character made from two people's lingering.The word "human" is written between people (between people).As these words show, people cannot live alone.That's why we create a family, make friends, create a society, and help each other.
In Buddhism, all the people we have in such a society are called "friends."However, there are various "friends" in the world, even if they say "friends".
Some friends are bland, some are bad friends, and some good friends.In Buddhism, he teaches, "Avoid bad friends and get involved with good friends."
If you talk about such a story, you may think that it is surprising that Buddhism is a teaching that you should get along with anyone.But Buddha has even stated that "good friends are everything" to make the way.why.That's because we always have the influence of those who are close.
When you get on the train or go to the city, you can see that when you observe the group you see there.Their clothes, hairstyles, hair colors, speaking style, speaking words, standing behavior, etc.You can find a lot of common points in their thoughts and behaviors.
Originally, similar things would have gathered and groups would have been created, but those similar people are always with each other will further influence each other and strengthen their characteristics.
If you are near a bad friend, you will be influenced by a bad friend, and if you are on the side of a good friend, you will be influenced by good friends.Unknowingly, you will be affected by your friends.So, Buddha preached the importance of consciously identifying friends.
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